About GentlemanPlayer

One of the greatest joys of my life, in addition to never failing to put a smile on my face, is the thrill of approaching, conversing and then finally connecting with someone with whom I’ve just met 15 minutes ago. It’s hard to pinpoint exactly what it actually is but I just love meeting people because there’s always something new to be learnt. Befittingly…

My overall goal is to inspire men to become stronger communicators because effective communication is the backbone for not only dating success, but success in life and in the relationships you have with people.
These relationships occur in the workplace, at social events and with family and friends. GentlemanPlayer is my vehicle to achieve this.


What is GentlemanPlayer?

GentlemanPlayer specialises in offering professional dating workshops, courses, consulting and forums for men where simple dating and communication principles become the backbone for these services.

Why is communication so important for dating success?

When you remove the veil of technology that comforts so many online daters
…you are left with face-to-face human interaction.

When you remove the planning of a speed dating event
…you are left with face-to-face human interaction.

When you remove the actions of a friend who introduces you to one of his/her friends
…you are left with face-to-face human interaction.

When you look at it all in the most simplest way, how you interact with your date (i.e. how you communicate and express who you are) is what really matters at the end of the day.

What is the purpose of this blog?

There’s more to life than getting laid so in addition to my articles and posts on dating, becoming a stronger communicator also involves becoming a stronger individual. Hence, my blog also includes lifestyle posts on inspirational, motivational and useful material that can be derived from books, movies, songs and quotes. Last but not least, how a man presents himself is a cardinal rule of life so there are also posts on accessories, clothing and shoes.